Time Off

I didn't realize how much of a stickler I am about routine until my husband took some time off this month. Yikes! I liked to think that I was go-with-the-flow and kind of just did whatever we wanted each day, other than on preschool days. I guess I was wrong. I am exactly the opposite - I have a mental schedule that I stick to very strictly and boy am I a grouch when we deviate from that schedule!

For a while I was following the FlyLady (www.flylady.net) with regard to my cleaning and organizing schedules. She has a lot of great information for organization and time management when it comes to keeping the home clean....and by clean I mean SPOTLESS. I became pretty obsessed with cleaning for a little while, until I realized that maybe her schedules didn't fit a family of 5, including a very new newborn. So, I dropped her schedule, though I continue to receive her emails - guess I couldn't completely let go of that addiction. :)

Next, I tried to keep a few tips of FlyLady's and incorporate them into my own schedule. That worked, but then I fell into some sort of funk during the winter months because we were stuck inside a lot due to weather. I felt like I was cleaning the same things every other day....and they weren't even dirty! I gave up on that because it just made me angry.

And now, I keep no cleaning schedule (on paper, anyway). I just clean as needed and do a good deep-clean weekly or when I can get to it. At least, I THOUGHT that's how I was doing it. I guess not.

My husband's first day off last week was laundry day. I thought I was going to blow a fuse because I couldn't get as much done as I normally can on a Monday. I made the mistake, though, of verbalizing that and hurt his feelings. I made it seem like I didn't even want him home! The rest of last week is a blur because I was rushing around buying food and preparing for my youngest's first birthday parties (yes, she had 2 of them. ugh.). I overspent on the food because I was unprepared for the shopping and I was rushing around last minute trying to put together the cakes and packing and cleaning. We ended up in Indiana Thurs-Sat, so I wasn't going to have time to clean before the 2nd party here on Sunday. I didn't plan out my week well, so I spent Thursday morning running around and crying. Yes, crying. My husband probably thought I was nuts. I was crying because Dominick's didn't have peppers on sale, and I spent $6 for 3 peppers. I still think that's a ridiculous amount of money, but I needed them. I was just so frustrated, and the peppers were the last straw. I was able to get it together in time to go and enjoy some time at my parents' house this weekend. I had a mini-meltdown Sunday when the rice just wouldn't cook! Crunchy rice doesn't make for a very nice Arroz con Pollo. I guess that's what I get for trying so hard. Should have stuck with the simple - hot dogs and hamburgers.

Anyway, today he's back at work for a half day then has tomorrow and Friday off before going back to his regular schedule. I am learning much about myself. I am a huge grouch when I can't do what I want to do. Go figure. I suppose my parents could've told me that one. :) I think I will be upset with myself for not enjoying this time off more, but I will also enjoy getting "back to normal." I think we'll have a few months before he has several days off again. And I'm sure by then I'll be griping about having to do everything myself because of his work schedule.

I wish I could just turn off my scheduled self when I needed to, to just enjoy my family and our time together. We did have a lot of fun. Went to the Museum of Science and Industry last Wednesday. The girls got to see and do a lot of things. It was fun to watch them explore and process and just observe all the things out there. I had a great time with both sides of the family for the parties. My Baby is 1 year old now! I can't believe it. I baby her a lot still, but I guess she's really growing up fast.

Now, if I could just get her to sleep in her own bed through the night.....(ya, don't get me started on that one. there might be tears...)

Musem's Free Admission!!

This week, the Museum of Science and Industry has free general admission. I heard it's in honor of Earth Week, but I don't know if that's accurate. Regardless of the reason, it's free!! We plan to go tomorrow and take the girls. The Omnimax pricing is different on free days ($8 for adults, $6 for kids age 3-11). So, $22 for us all to get in AND see the Omnimax feature; I think we'll see the Tahiti surfing feature, instead of the Hubble movie.....the girls will like the surfing more!

Also this week, the Disney store is celebrating Earth Day on April 22 by giving away free hats (made of 100% recycled materials) to those that bring in 6 or more bottles or cans to recycle. Limit is 1 hat per customer/guest, and you must have 6 bottles/cans to recycle. I will probably take the girls in to do that one. We recycle anyway, so I'm sure we can find 6 cans or bottles for the 2 older girls to toss in.

Kellogg's All-Bran Samples

I received a sample size box of Kellogg's Bran Buds cereal. I thought they'd be a good snack for my almost 1 year old......until I tasted them. They're just as bland as the All-Bran cereal. My daughter did NOT like them; in fact, she spit them out. I tried a handful....and wanted to spit mine out, too. My 2 and 3 years old daughters did not like them much either.

We will probably not be buying them unless they are ridiculously cheap or free. The only use for them I'd have then would be for making my bran muffins.

The second sample Kelloggs sent was the All-Bran Wheat Flakes. Those were pretty tasty. Similar to Corn Flakes. The girls and I enjoyed that sample size, and I would consider buying those again. They contain a good helping of fiber and are made with wheat bran.

So, yay for the Wheat Flakes and nay for the bran buds.

Lost in Loans

So, our computer was acting crazy last week. Then it just stopped working. GRRRR! It was only a little over 2 years old, so I was very angry. Best Buy took a look....for $170; they said we had 354 viral threats on the computer but that the hard drive was fine. Phew! Except, it was going to cost an additional $130 to TRY and repair the OS, and if that didn't work then it was damage to something physical and would have to be sent out for parts. Well, the tower wasn't even worth the $300 we'd be putting into it, so we decided to get a new one. Of course, we had not been saving to purchase a new computer, so this was going to come out of pocket. We are doing the debt-free living these days, so there was no way we were going to charge/finance a new one. The Apple computers/laptops/iPads looked great, but not for a whopping $1000! We went with a simple Asus netbook and just got the external hard drive and portable CD drive for the additional needs we have. All in all, it's a great computer. Total purchase was under $700, and we can still do everything we could before....plus, now we're mobile with it! So, God really provided by making it affordable with the computer, extra drives, and the 2 yr protection plan. We paid cash and don't have to worry about a monthly payment......just replenishing our emergency fund now.

It seemed like a little thing at the time, but God really did a HUGE thing for us by providing for us to be able to pay cash. Credit cards seem like no big deals some times, but they really eat up your money. I'm very thankful that God has allowed to be living without the credit card for almost 3 months now! Not very long, but that's the longest we've gone I think. Zero balance means zero interest and zero monies owed to someone else. Now, we're paying down the car loans....I never want to finance a car again. What a waste of money. If we can pay them both off in the next 12 months, we'll be in really good shape to start knocking down the house loan and putting away money in investments and the girls' funds. We have just a little in their accounts now, but if we can stop paying on loans (except for the house), then we can definitely set aside much more for the girls' education.

God does so much for us between paychecks. And we definitely haven't been able to live without the big money worries until we started tithing. Seriously. Seems ridiculous and doesn't make sense sometimes, but we actually have MORE money each pay period after we give the tithe. Weird, I know, but God is doing just as He promised He would if we obeyed....He's taking care of the things we need and He's even blessing us beyond that. Of course, we (humanly) still worry about money every week....which is silly because we've never been without - never missed a meal, a bill, a tuition payment, etc.

I know God will continue to take care of and bless us as long as we're doing what He's asked and doing it with the right heart - not grudgingly but rather with a grateful spirit. We are all responsible for the things He's entrusted to us. That is one of the many reasons I like to coupon. He has given me a great responsibility to manage for the househould and family needs. My husband manages our checkbook, but I have the cash that takes care of groceries and clothing and gas and whatnot. Why would I NOT want to do everything I can to handle it properly and wisely, so that we can enjoy the fruits of our labor rather than spoil them by buying anything and everything?!

My goal is to always be aware of what and how I'm spending and to remember to be thankful constantly for God's provision and to trust Him to do as He's promised as long as I do as He's asked. What a great God I have! Thank You, Jesus, for Your blessings and guidance.

Strawberry Cream Cheese Muffins and Savings

I made Strawberry Cream Cheese Muffins last Friday. Delicious! Found the recipe in my Cooking Club magazine. I was hesitant in making them simply because I'd never had strawberries in bread or muffins before and wasn't quite sure how the texture would be after baking. I was pleasantly surprised when I tasted them. The chunk of cream cheese in the middle really made them great! My girls liked them, too. I gave a couple away to friends and family, who all gave good reviews as well. The only thing I didn't do was take a picture of them! Ugh! I could have shared them on here, but oh well. Maybe next time...

Also, I planned a trip to both Jewel and Dominick's for yesterday just to grab a few sale items, since I wouldn't be doing an actual grocery trip until Thursday after the sales ended. I scored 4 jumbo packs of Baby Basics diapers from Jewel for only $12! They were on sale for $7.99 each, so I bought 4 to get over $30 and trigger the $10 back coupon at the register. So, That brought me to $20 and I had some Your Bucks left over after first coming in and purchasing Post cereals with coupons and getting discounts and Your Bucks back. So, the 4 packages of diapers were a good deal. And now I have $10 for Jewel to use on my next baby purchase! More diapers! :)

I also went to Dominicks to get some V-8 VFusion juices for $1.74 each (2), 2 bologna packages for $1, an 8 pack of Gatorade for $4.49 (not a great sale, but it'll do!), eggs for $.69 (they were $1.39 with an odd 50% clearance sticker on them; I think because their expiration is the 19th), and a few other cheap items. Total there was $11.

Today, I transferred a prescription online from Walgreens over to CVS and went in to pick it up and scored a $25 CVS gift card as well as my 2% earnings from my winter spending (only $4, but I'll do better this next quarter!). So, all in all, it was a good start to my week. I spent $5 today on the prescription and got back $29 to use at CVS! Can't wait for tomorrow's paper to get here with the new sales ads, so I can map out my shopping for Thursday or Friday.

After naps, we have to head back to CVS as I forgot to buy milk. DUH! And I'll see what other things I can score with the gift card and get back some ECB's!

God has been extremely good lately. Ok, so He's always extremely good, but I'm really starting to be aware of how He provides and how He helps remind me how to wisely use our family's money to get what we need, a few things we like, and how to keep saving for the future!

More For Free

I had to run out to Target yesterday, since my 2 year old decided to poke a hole in her pillow and pull the stuffing out. GRRRRR.

Since I had all 3 girls with me, I decided to make a whole trip of it and use up some coupons for free items. Here's what I got and what I paid:

Air Wick I-Motion Starter Kit $6 (sale price)
2 Tide travel size pouches $.97 each
1 Suave Professionals Shampoo $1.92
1 Suave Professionals Conditioner $1.92
1 Pillow $4.54 (sale)
1 GE Smart Energy Lightbulb $2.99
1 GE Reveal Lightbulb 4-pack $2.49
1 Suave Kids Body Wash $1.94

Coupons:
$5 off Air Wick (mfr)
$2 off Air Wick (target cpn)
2- $1 off any size Tide
$2 off GE Smart Energy (mfr)
$1 off GE Smart Energy (target)
$2 off GE Reveal (mfr)
$1.50 off GE Reveal (target)
$1.00 off 2 Suave Professional products (mfr)
$1.00 off 2 Suave Professional products (target)
$.50 off Suave Kids Body Wash (mfr)
20% off any Bedding item (target)

My total? $7.46!!!! I'd say that was a steal! The receipt said my total savings was $25.40! I saved over 75%!

Ok, so the only item I really NEEDed was the pillow and the kids body wash, but hey, the rest was free (or very close to it!). The Tide coupons were about to expire and they were for "any size", so I knew to use them on the travel sizes to get them free. The lightbulb deals I learned about online, and the AirWick deal I knew about since a few weeks ago when I got my other AirWick item free. :)

I attended a Super Couponing class on Wednesday night at our library, so I am very excited on my savings after that class and extremely looking forward to the savings starting on Sunday. I plan to get some REALLY great deals on Monday for groceries.

I'm a HUGE nerd, but that's ok. I like thinking about having leftover budgeted money to use on the family in other ways. Maybe we'll be able to take that vacation this year after all.....

Review of A Century Turns by William Bennett

A Century Turns: New Hopes, New Fears is a great account of the 20 years between 1988 and 2008. William Bennett has such a great ability to break down complex political situations into layman’s terms. As an eyewitness to much of the 20 years’ happenings, Mr Bennett clearly is able to give detailed and credible accounts of America’s modern history. From the first President Bush’s term up until President Obama’s term, Bennett graphically depicts the good, the bad, and the ugly steps America takes.

This book is definitely an easy read. For those of us that find it difficult to stay interested in biased political writings, this book keeps us reading and unbiased. Bennett does well to (mostly) give a factual report on the history of America during recent and sometimes troubled times without causing us to feel a certain way (for or against) each political figure involved - not an easy task sometimes!

A Century Turns would be a great addition to any school or American history class. I would dare say there is a better account (accurate, unbiased, etc) out there. Despite some of the most ugly times during the 20 year period covered, Bennett does well to offer a positive and somewhat encouraging outlook.

A great read for the political enthusiast and even the non-enthusiast. I would definitely recommend this one for the home library.